One of the serious questions in a relationship; why the hell there is break up in a relationship? Why someone who meant to be everything at some point of time becomes apart from each other?
The answer is everything far away from us is liked by us. And it’s because in name of love there is mere attraction involved. It’s very difficult to differentiate between love and attraction; I will talk about it later. Because, I am talking here to talk about: why the relationship gets broken?
According to mine experience, there is break up in a relationship for 3 reasons; all of them are interlinked with each other.
Misunderstanding:
it is very bad for any relationship and not only for a couple. It is applicable to all friends’, family etc. relationship in most of the time gets Brock en because of misunderstanding or lack of understanding. So one can say understanding is a foundation or a back bone of any relations. Now comes how understanding comes, understanding comes simply out of proper communication. And how communication comes is only through giving time and space for each other. So time and understanding are related.
Time:
time plays an important role in formation and breakage of any relationships. It’s also most important part of a relationship. On an instance the more time we give to our partner more we will be able to understand each other. And that will lead to the foundation of the relationship and strengthen the relationships.
Jealousy:
jealousy is the worst enemy of love or relationship. But I relay to understand to get jealous is normal, since one fear to lose the loved one. But, if there is proper understanding between each other then for sure, one should not be jealous. Or one shouldn't indulge on the things that your partner doesn't like.
So, this three are the worst enemy for any relationship. Especially, for the couple this may be very bad and hazardous. So, one must try to avoid these three things in life to have a healthy and long time relationship.
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