is it mere a attrection or love

Love usually will begin with a mere attraction or fondness for each other. But if you meet someone at the age of 22 and are still attracted to each other at the age of late 60's then indefinably, its LOVE. one can easily say that, the first steps toward love is Attraction.

Attraction merely remains for the time being and people get over it with a passage of time. As soon as one find someone and are in love with someone, its not a love. But the love being entirely different thing, it doesn't get changes with changes in time.

so you can easily understand: what is love and what is attraction?

but the most difficult thing is differentiate between these two? because love starts with an attraction only!

so its very important and one must consider it as an important steps, before going on a relationship. so below i will provide you with some guides; how you can differentiate between love and attraction?

·         in attraction You’re totally focused on a person’s looks and body rather than on their personality.

·         You’re interested in having sex, but not in having conversations where as in love You want to spend quality time together other than sex.

·         You’d rather keep the relationship on a fantasy level, not discuss real feelings but in love You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing.

·         You want to leave soon after sex rather than cuddling or breakfast the next morning where as in case of love You want to honestly listen to each other’s feelings, make each other happy.

·         You are lovers, but not friends.He or she motivates you to be a better person.You want to get to meet his or her family and friends.

so it is very important to make a differentiation between the love and attraction, because one may feel incompatiable with each other after going on through a few months of relationship.