Relation Tips

Why you left me?

She left me! I left her. It’s most common parlance of today’s relation. One day the will say, “I cannot leave with out you and the very next day they will say forget me! It happens in our life and even happened with me. Because I am also a normal human like you. To be frank, with you all, no one understands the fact that: what is love?

So I ask you all people do you really understand what is love?

Most of the answer would be hanging out going for dates, kissing, hugging, sharing the intimate moments, and one more thing fondness of some. Well let me tell you all it is some where down the part of love but it is not love. Yes it’s not love! To feel good when you’re with some particular person is not love. Since I am here to talk about: why you left me? I would request you to think about love. Next time for sure I would write about the love and you can do compare between: whether you love someone or it’s a mere attraction?

Now why someone leaves you?

The reason may be two;

·        ............ They already found someone they deserved: this may be the one reason for leaving some one because you may have found someone whom you love and care the most then already you’re past. It happened with me 4 years back I loved and may be liked her so much! We never came up in a relation but I liked her, but she didn’t care about me. She was a self-centric person, and wanted to go for some one who can provide her luxurious life. So later on I was happy for that.

·       ................  They are not comfortable with you after they knew each other: everything that is very far away from us is always liked by us. But after the thing get close, and one starts knowing each other, they may not be very comfortable with you. This is the main reason for some quitting out of relationship.

So which one was yours? You can think about it.

And last thing I wanted to say is, before one proceeds for any relation, consider understanding each other as a key factor for continuing relationship. Because, if there is an understanding love, care, affection and trust then relation strength would come out prominently.

 3 Reason for Break up in relationships

One of the serious questions in a relationship; why the hell there is break up in a relationship? Why someone who meant to be everything at some point of time becomes apart from each other?

 The answer is everything far away from us is liked by us. And it’s because in name of love there is mere attraction involved. It’s very difficult to differentiate between love and attraction; I will talk about it later. Because, I am talking here to talk about: why the relationship gets broken?

According to mine experience, there is break up in a relationship for 3 reasons; all of them are interlinked with each other.

   Misunderstanding:

        it is very bad for any relationship and not only for a couple. It is applicable to all friends’, family etc. relationship in most of the time gets Brock en because of misunderstanding or lack of understanding. So one can say understanding is a foundation or a back bone of any relations. Now comes how understanding comes, understanding comes simply out of proper communication. And how communication comes is only through giving time and space for each other. So time and understanding are related.

  Time:

      time plays an important role in formation and breakage of any relationships. It’s also most important part of a relationship. On an instance the more time we give to our partner more we will be able to understand each other. And that will lead to the foundation of the relationship and strengthen the relationships.

  Jealousy:

       jealousy is the worst enemy of love or relationship. But I relay to understand to get jealous is normal, since one fear to lose the loved one. But, if there is proper understanding between each other then for sure, one should not be jealous. Or one shouldn't indulge on the things that your partner doesn't like.

So, this three are the worst enemy for any relationship. Especially, for the couple this may be very bad and hazardous. So, one must try to avoid these three things in life to have a healthy and long time relationship.